SHARE WHAT A HOME AWAY HAS MEANT TO YOU!

February 18th, 2010

Alumni and other friends of A Home Away are invited to share your experience with A Home Away. Share your experience, strength and hope with others.

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If you sit in the barber chair long enough…

September 8th, 2010

you are going to get a hair cut.

Stay out of slippery places!

Sitting in a Barber Chair

Rx for Resentments – From the good Dr himself

September 6th, 2010

Rx Dr.Bob

Take until finished.  Share this prescription with others. Take on a dry stomach.

We will suddenly realize that God is doing for us…

September 6th, 2010

…what we could not do for ourselves.

Serenity Lake

The Sandbox Story

September 5th, 2010

Ok, it is not really a story, but do you remember the sandbox? Did you, or one of the neighbours or the local park have a sandbox? Most little kids love to play in the sandbox. Often there were little cars or bulldozers for driving around or piling up dirt. Plastic shovels and old yogurt containers or buckets to make castles. It was fun!! Remember? Take yourself there in your mind. Now, can you hear your mom calling you in for lunch? Who wanted to leave the sandbox? Mom usually had to call several times to tear us away from our little friends and the fun we were having.

Then we got a trike or maybe even a two wheeler.  Maybe we were old enough to go to the Big Park. Now that was really exciting – we were going places! So much to see and do. Sometimes though, we still climbed in the sandbox, especially if the littler kids seemed to be having fun in there, and they asked us to join them. Not too many months went by though, and when we climbed back in the sandbox, we hoped our new, more mature friends didn’t see us in there.  Sometimes it was enjoyable, but we really started to notice that the sand maybe wasn’t all that clean, and we found the occasional cat turd.  Pretty soon, as we were enjoying our new freedom and the wind in our hair on the bike, with our new friends, we wouldn’t get back in the sandbox for anything.  It’s not that we missed the sandbox. It’s not that we thought the younger kids shouldn’t be in the sandbox. We had just outgrown the sandbox. We were not interested in it anymore.

As people first move into sobriety and new behaviours, the sandbox full of using and drinking friends can still look pretty appealing. It can be very tempting to step back in, get down on your haunches and push the little firetruck around a bit.  Some of these little friends really look like they are loving where they are.  One day at a time though, hanging out with your new friends in sobriety is less like riding a two wheeler than it is getting your driver’s license. Trust me, you will not be pining away for the sandbox of your old life.

The Sandbox

Jane

Fear knocked on the door…Faith answered…

August 29th, 2010

…no one was there.

s knocking on the door. A Home Away Retreat, Cocoa, Drug Rehab

Meal times at A Home Away Retreat.

August 28th, 2010

Addiction Recovery can be in a non-institutional, non-government controlled or funded Boutique Retreat.

You deserve to be treated with respect, and fed great food!

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Recovery is an “Action” program…

August 28th, 2010

In the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous,  Chapter 5  reads: “Here are the steps we took, not: “Here are the steps we thought about“.

Chapter 6 is called  Into Action, not Into Thinking.

Big Book, A Home Away Retreat, Respectful Drug Rehab

Prayer might not change things for me…

August 27th, 2010

…but it sure changes me for things.


Serenity Pond

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August 26th, 2010

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The Bill W. Plant Flourishes at A Home Away

August 26th, 2010

The Bill W. Plant Story

A brief history of a well traveled plant…

If you are in recovery, you may have heard of, or seen a certain little green plant making its way around the rooms of your twelve step program. Maybe you have seen a little plant being given as a gift at a sobriety anniversary. Maybe your sponsor has one, or your sponsor’s sponsor. Maybe you even have one, and have shared it with your sponsors.

When I arrived in the community thirteen years ago, I didn’t notice or see any of these plants. Six years ago I first saw one given away at a 12 Step social function. This little plant then began to show up, in my awareness, here and there, being passed from member to member, or given as a gift to celebrate an anniversary cake. When I met my husband, he had a small struggling plant that his sponsor had given him.

I assumed the care of this little plant with delight, and began propagating it. Over the next couple of years, I had nurtured 10 healthy plants. These plants love and thrive on attention, just like most people in recovery! My intention was to have this little green plant in each of the 8 private bedrooms of A Home Away Retreat. Below is a copy of the card placed beside each flourishing symbol of recovery.

The Bill W. Plant

Also known as Swedish Ivy, the plant in your bedroom comes with a great story to share. That is what recovery is all about, one alcoholic sharing with another.

Bill W. passed away on January 24, 1971 in Miami, Florida. When his wife, Lois, returned to their home in New York, now known as Stepping Stones, she brought home the plant that had been in Bill’s Florida hospital room. Lois cared for the plant until the mid 1980’s, when she passed it on to Harriet Sevarino, beloved cook and companion of Bill and Lois for 35 years. Harriet passed the plant on to Michael M., a member of AA from Atlanta, Georgia. Lois asked Michael to pass it on to members of AA in Bill’s memory. Michael did just that, sharing cuttings and offshoots of this plant with AA members all around the world.

The plant in your room comes from a slender shoot that John Derry brought from Ontario, a descendent of the original. The plant was passed on to John by his sponsor, Dave P., in 2005. Through tender care and propagation of cuttings, this plant is here today for you to care for and enjoy. It loves sun, and likes to dry out completely between waterings.

If you like, please take a small cutting home with you, share it with your new friends in recovery, and pass it on too. Cuttings root easily in water. Like the fellowship, when a piece of the plant is passed on, the plant grows stronger, and with care, and sharing, it spreads to homes and communities around the world.

I hope that one day every member who wants a plant shall have one.

If you can’t find one in your community, email us, and I’ll do my best to share with you.

Jane Derry General Manager and Spiritual Director of A Home Away Retreat. A private results oriented addiction recovery retreat. Non-institutional rehab that works – turns addictions into assets.