Posts Tagged ‘holistic rehab’

Humility is not thinking less of yourself…

Friday, June 25th, 2010

… it is thinking of yourself less.



Time…

Thursday, June 24th, 2010

Imagine there is a bank that credits your account each morning with $86,400.
It carries over no balance from day to day.
Every “evening” deletes whatever part of the balance you failed to use during the day.
What would you do?
Draw out every cent, of course!
Each of us has such a “bank”. It’s name is TIME.
Every morning, it credits you with 86,400 seconds.
Every night it writes off, as lost, whatever of this you have failed to invest to good purpose.
It carries over no balance.
It allows no overdraft.
Each day it opens a new account of the day.
If you fail to use the day’s deposit, the loss is yours.

There is no going back. There is no drawing against the “tomorrow”.
You must live in the present on today’s deposits.
Invest it so as to get from it the utmost in health, happiness, and success!
The clock is running.
Make the most of today.

To realize the value of ONE YEAR.. ask a student who failed a grade.
To realize the value of ONE MONTH.. ask a mother who gave birth to a premature baby.
To realize the value of ONE WEEK.. ask the editor of a weekly newspaper.
To realize the value of ONE HOUR.. ask the editor of a weekly newspaper.
To realize the value of ONE MINUTE.. ask a person who missed the train.
To realize the value of ONE SECOND.. ask a person who just avoided an accident.
To realize the value of ONE MINUTE.. ask a person who missed the train.
To realize the value of ONE MILLISECOND.. ask the person who won a silver medal in the Olympics.
Treasure every moment that you have!
And treasure it more because you shared it with someone special, special enough to spend your time. And remember that time waits for no one.

Yesterday is history.
Tomorrow is mystery.
Today is a gift.
That’s why its called..
the Present!

If you are trying to control your drinking…

Tuesday, June 22nd, 2010

…you have already lost control.

This too…

Monday, June 21st, 2010

…shall pass.

Quit Smoking Rehab

Trust in your Higher Power. Storms never last forever.

The Darkest Hour

Wednesday, June 16th, 2010

Boutique Drug Rehab, www.ahomeaway.org

Are you feeling in the dark? Here is an uplifting message from Jane Derry

Abandon this world, so that you may become king of all worlds.

Thursday, April 1st, 2010

Throw away your handful of sugar, so that you may become the sugar field. ~Rumi

Sugar Cane Field, A Home Away Retreat, Kelowna

“Why do you stay in prison…

Sunday, March 14th, 2010


…when the door is so wide open?

Move outside the tangle of fear-thinking. Live in silence.” ~Rumi

Wings, A Home Away Retreat

Medicine Card drawn this week – Swan

Friday, March 12th, 2010

Part of the Spiritual Sessions at A Home Away include Animal Medicine Cards. Do they mean anything? I don’t know. Maybe they just mean whatever it is you bring to them.

Swan – Grace # 39

Be willing to accept whatever the future holds as it is presented without trying to change Great Spirit’s plans, don’t fight the current of life, surrender and trust what is shown by Great Spirit. Learn to surrender your body to the power of Great Spirit, have faith and show acceptance. Learn to accept the state of grace. Be one with all planes of consciousness and trust in Great Spirit protection. You have the ability to see the future to surrender to the power of Great Spirit and accept the feeling and transformation of your life.

Swan Medicine Card, A Home Away Retreat

Reverse: Acknowledge what you know so stop denying your feelings cult zing up.Pay more attention to your body in the world of spirit pay close attention to the unseen. You are embarking on new territory that has rules or universal laws of its own. You may sense or feel a slightly different way but this is gradual. This shift is sometimes lost among your normal activities until you feel spaced out. Reconnect then with mother earth. The solution to swan is to touch earth with your hands and feet. Focus on reality or the other, or visit the dark time, stop what you are doing and be still. Enter the silence and empty your mind. Be receptive and open so you can receive the message into your consciousness. If you are just spacey or day dreaming, you need to get focus.

Recovery Suggestions:

Saturday, March 6th, 2010

Everything in twelve step programs are suggestions only.

Just like when you are jumping out of a plane, it is suggested that you pull the ripcord of your parachute. You really don’t have to.

Jumping out of a plane - pull the ripchord. A Home Away Retreat, Kelowna

Reflections from a true friend

Friday, March 5th, 2010

Excerpt of comments from Ross Leckie:

A close friend operates a centre for addiction treatment in Kelowna, British Columbia, called A Home Away. There John and his wife Jane host those who seek escape from the grip of alcohol, drugs, and other addictions. They offer various forms of therapy, help people to claim a spiritual discipline, bring them to places of healthy lifestyle choices and introduce their ‘guests’ to the support of regular 12-step meetings that will always be available wherever their home is.

It can be a rather risky business as the intake ‘ebbs’ and ‘flows’. And working with people with addictions has its challenges. Sometimes people think they are ready to change their destructive habits, but if they are not, then probing of inner demons can lead to adverse behaviour. Some people take flight before the agreed 42 day treatment and make threats and accusations when “their” money is not refunded.

Just the other day, John returned rather ‘downtrodden’ from consulting a lawyer about a person who has threatened to extort money from them and made slanderous threats. Thankfully the next item of the afternoon was much more gratifying-a heartwarming ceremony of departure for a woman returning to eastern Canada to begin a new life after facing up to her challenges with alcohol, drugs, and an eating disorder.

I think it must be like that for Jesus. His life must be a roller coaster of emotion. He celebrates with us in the times of joy and success and new understandings. He holds us in the depth of our despair and failure and his heart aches in tune with ours.

One of the guests from A Home Away returned to Vancouver last week. This is a portion of a letter she wrote:

I wanted to share with you my story from last night (Sunday). We (husband, son, daughter and I) headed over to Vancouver on Saturday morning to take in some of the Olympic hype. The energy was amazing, an experience I am grateful to have been a part of. We took in the Norway, Switzerland men’s hockey game. International sporting events are amazing, such patriotism!

Anyways, when I got home on Sunday I wanted and needed to go to a meeting. I looked up on the internet where the Sunday night meeting was and headed out. I arrived at the Baptist Church only to find a church service…No AA meeting! A gentleman saw me in the hall looking confused. He told me that there is no meeting there on Sunday nights, but I was welcome to come in for the service…so I did. My point being, I took the opportunity that God had put in front of me for a meeting.

Guidance was presented to me in a different light and I accepted. The old me would have sworn and cursed that things didn’t go “my way” and left in a tizzy. I am very grateful for the experience, and I might even go back next Sunday! I did find out at the noon meeting today that the meeting has changed locations.

Read Ross’ full message.….

skiing with friends